When I use the term “bestie” to myself and to my actual besties, I ensure that I am not utilizing the term in the wrong dimensions. Instead, I try my best to ensure that I am utilizing the term as appropriately as it should—and must—be utilized. Unfortunately, in Southern usage, this term may be utilized to hide sensitivities and still result in gossip in their culture.
Month: August 2025
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Peace in Refuge
Because of my very difficult styles of friendships and potentially confusing connotations from certain outsiders, I find peace and refuge in areas where I can just live and be myself. For me specifically, the refuge would largely be found north of 41°N within the Eastern and Midwestern United States regions alike, though a few anomalies exist, particularly in the Mid-Atlantic and select Appalachian and Blue Ridge regions. Further west, my refuge would likely be in most of Iowa, Minnesota, and East River in both South Dakota and North Dakota. Colorado, though south of 41°N, may also be an excellent candidate for the maintenance of my friendships, and so may California and the Reno and Carson City regions of Nevada.
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Admiration of Professions
Of all the possible professions, I admire computer science and cybersecurity the most because of my core values and long history being associated with the tech industry. The tech industry accepts and aligns with my core values and ideal persona as well, and I am in aggressive support of free-and-open-source-software (FOSS) in my situation. I also admire the industry for supporting my aggressive beliefs in its utopian pockets.
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Shopping Persona
If I, novaTopFlex, were to open up a shop, I would prefer selling different pieces of my Three Identities in product form, likely in an electronic format. I would invite people to read my identity even offline, without the societal pressures capitalism has brought into our modern societal norms and expectations. The most important products for me and for my unique persona to sell would be written, spoken, and even video records of different contexts, whether based on documentation, content, or context. As novaTopFlex, these topics are based on technology. As geoTopFlex, it is exclusively content-based, with a focus on geography. All other types of content interests, including mathematics, shall be grouped under the banner of futoTopFlex.
